Friday, July 27, 2012

Are You Really A “Friend”?

So this post is going to address the tides of friendship, the push and pull that embodies the thing everyone has or wants.

The definition of friendship according to wikipedia is as follows: Friendship is a relationship between two people who hold mutual affection for each other.

The value of friendship is often the result of friends consistently demonstrating the following:

  • The tendency to desire what is best for the other
  • Sympathy and empathy
  • Honesty, even in situations where it may be difficult for others to speak the truth
  • Mutual understanding and compassion; ability to go to each other for emotional support
  • Enjoyment of each other's company
  • Trust in one another
  • Positive reciprocity — equal give-and-take between the two parties
  • The ability to be oneself, express one's feelings and make mistakes without fear of judgement.



I wholeheartedly believe that the value of friendship as stated by wikipedia is an accurate definition of what constitutes a friend. Someone who can show sympathy and empathy towards your situation, is 100% honest with you at all times, someone you can trust, and most importantly RECIPROCITY in the relationship. For someone to be a “true” friend there has to be genuine reciprocity when it comes to all aspects of friendship whether it be emotional, physical, or mental.


So with the definition cleared up for us I wanted to introduce you to the story of how I came to know someone who I considered a friend.